I’m Mishawn Childers!
Dating & Relationship Strategist | Speaker | Author
I'm Mishawn Childers, a Dating & Relationship Strategist, wife of 21 years, and mother of four.
After becoming a single mother at 18, I learned firsthand that the choices we make shape the relationships we experience.
For years, I watched intelligent, successful women settle for less than they deserved, not because they lacked value, but because they were repeating patterns they didn't recognize.
I know that story because I've lived parts of it myself.
That's why I created the Choose Better™ Framework.
Choose Better™ helps women identify unhealthy relationship patterns, strengthen their standards, build confidence, and recognize healthy love when it arrives.
This isn't about becoming cynical, guarded, or giving up on relationships.
It's about becoming:
Protected, not paranoid.
Cautious, not cynical.
Confident enough to stop settling.
Today, I help women break unhealthy cycles, trust themselves again, and create relationships that align with their values, goals, and future.
Because better choices create better relationships.
Who I Help
Women who want to recognize red flags sooner, trust themselves more deeply, and create relationships aligned with their values and future.
Women Ready for Healthy Love
Women who are tired of repeating unhealthy relationship patterns and are ready to raise their standards, strengthen their confidence, and choose healthier relationships.
Women Ready to Stop Settling
I help women in two important seasons of life:
Why This Work Matters to Me
This work is personal.
At 18, I became a single mother. I know what it feels like to face difficult circumstances, question your next step, and wonder if you're capable of creating a different future.
Over the years, I learned that transformation doesn't happen because life suddenly gets easier. It happens when you start making better choices for yourself; better choices in your mindset, your relationships, your boundaries, and the way you show up every day.
I earned my degree, built a successful career, raised four children, and discovered that confidence isn't something you find. It's something you build through the choices you make.
That's why I created the Choose Better™ framework.
Today, I help women stop settling, raise their standards, strengthen their confidence, and choose a life that aligns with who they truly are.
Because when you choose better, everything changes.
Beyond the Coaching
When I’m not leading mindset breakthroughs, you’ll find me:
✓ Walking or journaling.
✓ Reflecting in quiet moments.
✓ Sharing deep conversations over coffee.
✓ Traveling, reading, or creating inspiring content.
✓ And most of all, soaking up family time with my husband and our four amazing kids.
My Core Values
I live and lead by the principles that guide my work and my life:
Faith-Led Leadership
Boldness
Discernment
Authenticity
Transformation
These values guide every decision. every conversation, and every transformation inside the Choose Better™ experience.
Ready to Choose Better?
If you’re ready to step settling, raise your standards, and step into your next chapter with clarity and confidence, I'd love to support you. You don't have to do it alone.
Schedule your complimentary 30-minute Choose Better™ Discovery Call.
