Choose Better™
Stop Settling. Start Choosing Better.
Hi, I’m Mishawn!
I help women stop settling, raise their standards, and recognize healthy love before they waste years in the wrong relationship.
After becoming a single mom at 18, I learned firsthand how the choices we make in relationships can impact every area of our lives.
Years later, I built a healthy marriage, raised a family, and discovered something powerful:
The quality of your relationships is shaped by the quality of your choices.
Too many women are waiting to be chosen when they should be choosing.
They ignore red flags.
They over-give.
They hold onto potential.
They settle for less than they deserve.
That's why I created Choose Better™.
Through coaching, content, and resources like The Settling Score™ and The One Word Guide™, I help women develop better standards, make better choices, and create healthier relationships.
Because healthy love isn't luck.
It's the result of choosing better.
Better Standards. Better Choices. Better Relationships.
Dating & Relationship Strategist | Creator of Choose Better™
Stop Settling. Start Choosing Better.
Too many women stay in relationships that drain them, confuse them, or keep them hoping for potential that never becomes reality.
The truth?
Healthy love doesn't begin with luck.
It begins with better choices.
If you're tired of repeating the same relationship patterns, ignoring red flags, or wondering why you keep attracting the wrong people, it's time to raise your standards and choose better.
Because when you choose better, everything changes.
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Does This Sound Like You?
Tired of Settling
Ignoring Red Flags
Ready to Raise Your Standards
Seeking Healthy Love
You keep attracting the same type of relationship and you're ready to understand why.
Deep down you know something isn't right, but you keep hoping potential will become reality.
You're done accepting less than you deserve and ready to choose differently.
You want a relationship built on consistency, trust, respect, and emotional maturity.
Does This Sound Familiar?
You keep meeting people who seem promising at first, but eventually the same patterns appear.
Mixed signals.
Inconsistency.
Emotional unavailability.
Red flags you explained away because you saw potential.
The truth is, healthy relationships don't happen by accident. They happen when you learn to recognize unhealthy patterns, trust your instincts, and make better choices.
That's why I created Choose Better™.
Through relationship coaching, The Settling Score™, and practical tools designed to help women raise their standards, I help women stop settling and start creating the relationships they truly deserve.
Because when you choose better, everything changes.
Better Standards. Better Choices. Better Relationships.
Imagine trusting yourself enough to walk away from what isn't right.
No overthinking.
No chasing potential.
No wondering where you stand.
Just clarity, confidence, and the ability to recognize healthy love when it arrives.
If you're tired of repeating the same relationship patterns...
If you're ready to stop settling for inconsistency and confusion...
If you know you're meant for more but aren't sure what's keeping you stuck...
You're in the right place.
The problem isn't that you're not enough.
The problem is that nobody taught you how to choose better.
That's why I created Choose Better™.
Because better standards lead to better choices.
And better choices lead to better relationships.
Raise Your Standards. Choose Better.
You know you're capable of more than confusion, inconsistency, and relationships that leave you questioning your worth.
You're successful in many areas of life, but when it comes to relationships, you may find yourself attracting the same patterns, overlooking red flags, or settling for less than you deserve.
The truth is, healthy love doesn't start with finding the right person.
It starts with becoming the woman who recognizes the difference between attention and intention, chemistry and character, potential and reality.
That's why I created Choose Better™.
Through practical relationship coaching, The Settling Score™, and tools designed to help women make healthier relationship decisions, I help women stop settling and start choosing better.
Because when your standards rise, your choices change.
And when your choices change, your relationships change.
Real Words. Real Breakthroughs.
Having Mishawn coach me was EXTREMELY helpful. As a person who procrastinates and struggles with staying on task, being accountable to her is what I need. I felt so empowered after only a few sessions. Her coaching is very effective-she knows what to say to get you to commit to yourself!
Delores M.
I came into your workshop feeling a little heavy hearted and lonely, and left feeling light and encouraged by my sisters in Christ. Thank you for helping me to see how letting go can allow space for something beautiful to grow.
Chereis B.
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A friend of mine recommended this book knowing I love self discovery and growth. She even suggested I gift it to my niece whom I'm trying to encourage while she's struggling... I'm not an avid reader and my niece is worse! But this book plus the journal was so easy and exciting to experience. I enjoyed taking the time each day to read each story, self reflect, and grow using the journal. My niece, on the other hand, is still completing her journey with the book but we've connected on a few of the stories inside the book and I loved hearing her point of view, ah-ha moments, and self discovery. We both grew mentally and spiritually... I had to write a review.
★★★★★
Phoebe B.
Discover. Reflect. Rise.
Whether you’re looking to reconnect with your purpose or reclaim your voice, these powerful resources are designed to guide you through self-discovery, growth, and bold action in every area of your life. My books are more than inspiration, they’re tools for transformation.
Ready to Strengthen Your WHO?
If something inside you is saying, “This is exactly what I need,” trust it. That is the part of you that is ready to rise, ready to lead with confidence, and ready to show up as the version of yourself you know you were meant to be.
Let’s talk about where you are, what has been holding you back, and how the WHO Work™ Framework can help you elevate your confidence, clarity, and presence at work and in every part of your life.
When you strengthen who you are, everything begins to shift.
